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Really Brain? Really?

We are good.  I know we are good.  We’ve made such great progress.  I can see the changes in him. I feel the changes in me.  I can feel the difference in our daily interactions.  Our family life is so … Continue reading

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Behindmychoice: To Glorify the Thank You

The simple two word sentence, “thank you”.  It’s one of the first things we learn to say as a child.  It shows gratitude.  It shows appreciation. It shows respect.  It shows humility.  We hear it a lot.  We say it flippantly throughout … Continue reading

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Behind my choice: Living out 70×7

  a question was proposed during a discussion about forgiveness a week or so ago with dear friends as we gathered for bible study. “how many times are we called to forgive someone?”  my friend referenced Matthew 18:21-22 as she … Continue reading

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Behind my choice: To “Keep fighting out of the dark”

Anger. It rears its ugly head still. If allowed it becomes a breeding ground for resentment. Resentment is a toxin. A contagious, awful, relationship killing toxin. Choosing the positive, seeing the blessings over the burdens is often a purposeful action. … Continue reading

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BehindMyChoice: To Live By Self-Worth Not Self-esteem Alone

My wedding day…I loved every minute of it. It was the day I will always remember feeling like the center of my husband’s world.  He made it clear he was choosing me above all others that day.  He watched me walk … Continue reading

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Reflections of a Year Gone By

I made it…he made…our marriage made it…we made it!! It’s been a whole year.  As I have revisited so many of the moments, memories, trials, triumphs,…this entire journey has me spanning every emotion.  I’ve learned a LOT about myself, my … Continue reading

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Behind my choice- To be honest with the grief

Grief  has it’s place in society and is accepted to be ok when it makes sense… death, illness, divorce.  But when it’s something like an affair and the grief that follows why do I feel like I have to explain … Continue reading

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