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BehindMyChoice:Attitude Adjustment

Anniversaries are supposed to be a date to celebrate.  Today is an anniversary I struggle to even want to acknowledge.  I still fight back dark emotions and reactions of what this “anniversary” reflects.  Honestly I still take active measures to count … Continue reading

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Reflections of a Year Gone By

I made it…he made…our marriage made it…we made it!! It’s been a whole year.  As I have revisited so many of the moments, memories, trials, triumphs,…this entire journey has me spanning every emotion.  I’ve learned a LOT about myself, my … Continue reading

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Behind my choice- To be honest with the grief

Grief  has it’s place in society and is accepted to be ok when it makes sense… death, illness, divorce.  But when it’s something like an affair and the grief that follows why do I feel like I have to explain … Continue reading

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Behind my choice: To get off the Carousel

I am a Grey’s Anatomy fan.  Haven’t missed an episode yet.  I love the monologues and internal dialogue we get to hear as we watch them. photo credit: myacereporter.com Last week an episode aired (season 11, episode 22 “She’s Leaving … Continue reading

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Behind my choice- To Sing in the Rain

Have you ever watched the movie Singing in the Rain?  That famous scene where Gene Kelly kisses Debbi Reynolds goodnight at her door step and then dances and sings his way through the city streets proclaiming he’s, “…happy again. [he’s] … Continue reading

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Behind My Choice-To Practice Patience

Patience is a key element to any relationship if you ask me. From being a friend, parent, child, co-worker, spouse what would any relationship look like without patience.  Over the past few months while working through and facing my husband’s … Continue reading

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Behind my choice- Not to Dwell

Real life is non-stop and sometimes you don’t get a break from the emotional hard stuff; but when you finally deal with it and start working toward solutions things in life give you a break. I believe that.  Even if … Continue reading

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