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BehindMyChoice:Attitude Adjustment

Anniversaries are supposed to be a date to celebrate.  Today is an anniversary I struggle to even want to acknowledge.  I still fight back dark emotions and reactions of what this “anniversary” reflects.  Honestly I still take active measures to count … Continue reading

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Behindmychoice: Address the Emotions…again

Emotions hit out of nowhere.  They take over at times, even 2 years later.  They fluctuate from anger to fear, sometimes it’s frustration or just plain sadness.  And I’ll be honest it’s annoying.  Especially when I feel like I’m the only … Continue reading

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Behind my choice: To “Keep fighting out of the dark”

Anger. It rears its ugly head still. If allowed it becomes a breeding ground for resentment. Resentment is a toxin. A contagious, awful, relationship killing toxin. Choosing the positive, seeing the blessings over the burdens is often a purposeful action. … Continue reading

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BehindMyChoice: To Live By Self-Worth Not Self-esteem Alone

My wedding day…I loved every minute of it. It was the day I will always remember feeling like the center of my husband’s world.  He made it clear he was choosing me above all others that day.  He watched me walk … Continue reading

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Behind my choice: To get off the Carousel

I am a Grey’s Anatomy fan.  Haven’t missed an episode yet.  I love the monologues and internal dialogue we get to hear as we watch them. photo credit: myacereporter.com Last week an episode aired (season 11, episode 22 “She’s Leaving … Continue reading

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Behind My Choice-To Practice Patience

Patience is a key element to any relationship if you ask me. From being a friend, parent, child, co-worker, spouse what would any relationship look like without patience.  Over the past few months while working through and facing my husband’s … Continue reading

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Behind my choice- Not to Dwell

Real life is non-stop and sometimes you don’t get a break from the emotional hard stuff; but when you finally deal with it and start working toward solutions things in life give you a break. I believe that.  Even if … Continue reading

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