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Behind my choice: real, authentic, honest
Despite all the blessings, all the good, all the progress, all the forgiving and loving and survival….I just have days where I don’t want this to be my testimony. Today is just one of them. Really can it wash away … Continue reading
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Behind my Choice: To Not Let “alone” In
I started this blog a few years ago to let out what I was feeling, to continue healing, have a safe place to leave everything out there. I wanted to give a voice to the scared and shattered little girl, whom … Continue reading
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BehindMyChoice:Attitude Adjustment
Anniversaries are supposed to be a date to celebrate. Today is an anniversary I struggle to even want to acknowledge. I still fight back dark emotions and reactions of what this “anniversary” reflects. Honestly I still take active measures to count … Continue reading
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Behindmychoice: Address the Emotions…again
Emotions hit out of nowhere. They take over at times, even 2 years later. They fluctuate from anger to fear, sometimes it’s frustration or just plain sadness. And I’ll be honest it’s annoying. Especially when I feel like I’m the only … Continue reading
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Behindmychoice: Allowing Respect to Grow Trust
It’s been over a year and a half and recovery is still a word that I would use to explain where I am most of the time when it comes to my marriage. We are still on this healing journey. … Continue reading
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Tagged affair, faith, marriage, respect, trust
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Behindmychoice: Defining Love
Valentines day has come and gone. Whew! I am not a huge fan of Valentine’s Day. Why you ask? Is it because I am bitter and don’t like love? Oh wait–I blog about recovering from infidelity, I’m just harboring anger and … Continue reading
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Behind my choice: Living out 70×7
a question was proposed during a discussion about forgiveness a week or so ago with dear friends as we gathered for bible study. “how many times are we called to forgive someone?” my friend referenced Matthew 18:21-22 as she … Continue reading
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Behind my choice: To “Keep fighting out of the dark”
Anger. It rears its ugly head still. If allowed it becomes a breeding ground for resentment. Resentment is a toxin. A contagious, awful, relationship killing toxin. Choosing the positive, seeing the blessings over the burdens is often a purposeful action. … Continue reading
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Tagged affair, anger, choices, faith, infidelity, love, marriage
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BehindMyChoice: To Live By Self-Worth Not Self-esteem Alone
My wedding day…I loved every minute of it. It was the day I will always remember feeling like the center of my husband’s world. He made it clear he was choosing me above all others that day. He watched me walk … Continue reading
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Reflections of a Year Gone By
I made it…he made…our marriage made it…we made it!! It’s been a whole year. As I have revisited so many of the moments, memories, trials, triumphs,…this entire journey has me spanning every emotion. I’ve learned a LOT about myself, my … Continue reading
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